Tuesday, November 18, 2003
I don't know how i am going to get everything taken care of. I cannot seem to keep a cent in the bank, and the tax people are just eating me alive. I need to get my mortgage down to a somewhat reasonable amount, and payment, and I need to get those damned tax guys off my back, and I need to call the bus company and get them to write a letter saying they won't pay for my trip to the emergency room so that my insurance will pay it, and I need to get my job done, and I need to get my life back!
Little frustrated? You bet.
Little frustrated? You bet.
Monday, November 17, 2003
Well, I guess this is it. I have pretty much had it now. I am going to make the necessary changes and get my financial life out of his hands. I may not be able to make him stop having a girlfriend, and I may not be able to divorce him because of his medical needs, but I can make sure he isn't able to keep my daughter from having a college fund, and a home to live in.
How's that sound?
I don't know what form this will take, but I am sure it will be interesting. I have decided (you see) that I was happier and healthier when I was with you. At least you weren't emotionally involved with someone (other than me) for several years while insisting that we remain married so you didn't have to get out and take care of yourself.
Bastard.
Oh, well. I will get things straightened out with the tax people, someday, and then I can work on getting the rest of the cards, etc into my name. I am generating the only income, so I have to protect the cash for the property taxes, dd's expenses, all the medical bills, and all the rest. Maybe I can convince him to give up some of the cards voluntarily, by telling him that I have to get them paid off in time to go on the trip we have planned in the spring. I know it will be a trial, but we have to go and I have planned to get out on the ship and meet people. Even if it is only the staff. I will meet people. I will drink, and dance, and flirt. I will. I promise.
According to the lawyer, I will not be able to cut him off without a cent, but I can stop paying out the way I have been.
More tomorrow.
How's that sound?
I don't know what form this will take, but I am sure it will be interesting. I have decided (you see) that I was happier and healthier when I was with you. At least you weren't emotionally involved with someone (other than me) for several years while insisting that we remain married so you didn't have to get out and take care of yourself.
Bastard.
Oh, well. I will get things straightened out with the tax people, someday, and then I can work on getting the rest of the cards, etc into my name. I am generating the only income, so I have to protect the cash for the property taxes, dd's expenses, all the medical bills, and all the rest. Maybe I can convince him to give up some of the cards voluntarily, by telling him that I have to get them paid off in time to go on the trip we have planned in the spring. I know it will be a trial, but we have to go and I have planned to get out on the ship and meet people. Even if it is only the staff. I will meet people. I will drink, and dance, and flirt. I will. I promise.
According to the lawyer, I will not be able to cut him off without a cent, but I can stop paying out the way I have been.
More tomorrow.
